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Dr. Brenda Shoshanna is a clinical psychologist, internationaly acclaimed author, and found of Everyone Win Mediation. She appears regularly on network & cable television, radio, magazines and newspapers. She lends her expertise to worldwide audiences as a renown psychologist and relationship expert.
If you give me 5 minutes and set everything else aside, I promise that a wonderful discovery awaits you today. If you are a man or a woman, are currently engaged in a troubled relationship, or have found yourself repeatedly involved in "failing" relationships, this is where I can help you. For over 30 years I've been working in New York as a Ph.D psychologist and psychotherapist, where I have specialized in helping couples and individuals find the happiness they seek as partners, and as individuals. I have compiled my years of experience and research into "WHY MEN LEAVE", an ebook program that is a one-of-a-kind guide, and provides you with step by step techniques, methods and new understandings of how to achieve happiness and well-being in your relationships. After a relationship ends, whether it’s a 20 year marriage or a promising romance, women and men ask themselves over and over, what went wrong? They ask themselves, their friends and their therapists. Sometimes they even spend weeks, months or years blaming themselves. Some become increasingly afraid to become engaged in new relationships again. Other remain in the same painful relationship. "WHY
MEN LEAVE" is a
revealing, intimate ebook program which is the result of years of
psychological study and field research with a singular point -- to
understand male psychology with regards to relationships, and derive from
men themselves the fears they face, and hopes they have in a relationship.
The result? Important discoveries - both startling, enlightening and
scientifically grounded - as to why men decided to end their relationships,
and what could have made it easier for them stay and find a meaningful
resolution. Drawing on hundreds of interviews with the men, and extensive expert research, along with insights from today’s top psychologists, "WHY MEN LEAVE" gives, for the first time, a full picture of what men need to be happy, find to be challenging, or finally unbearable in their relationships. And because it is from the man's perspective, new and unique insights and solutions are proven to become apparent for both woman and for men.
Within this program, newly discovered facts, extensive research results, and expert "user friendly" step by step guidance empowers a person to discover new self awareness as to what has been really going wrong in their relationship. Armed with this new information and techniques, it becomes easier for a person to heal a troubled relationship, or to move on and establish a new way of life filled with joyous relationships. For those currently not engaged in a relationship, but have found themselves in repeated patterns of distressing relationships, it becomes possible to find out why these patterns have taken place in the past, and to establish new and healthy patterns for the future. "WHY MEN LEAVE" is an accumulation of extensive study and professional psychological expertise. In it, men reveal their most intimate secrets and feeling about relationships - ideas men commonly find too difficult to discuss. Ultimately, this information has lead to exceptionally rare revelations about male psychology and emotions, and provides a one-of-a-kind, step by step program for men and woman to mend painful wounds, and achieve joyous and deeply gratifying relationships. Combined with my proven step-by-step methods, developed as a practicing clinical psychologist for over 25 years, I have received hundred of testimonials from satisfied couples and individuals who relationships are now better than they ever thought possible. . .
From A Top Selling International Author
Dr. Shoshanna: As Seen on Good Morning Texas
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What Are The Top Reasons
"WHY MEN LEAVE"?
According to research conducted by Brenda Shoshanna, Ph.D., Clinical Therapist and Psychoanalyst, here are amongst the primary reasons men end relationships.
1.
THEY’RE WAITING FOR THE PERFECT
PARTNER
Most men have a secret fantasy which whispers that a perfect partner is somewhere, around the corner, waiting for him. This perfect partner will not only accept him as he is fully, but he’ll finally be able to express the parts of himself that are hidden. She’ll bring out the best in him. Rather than criticize and demand things from him, the partner will give unconditionally and fulfill his every need. This fantasy should not be discounted, as it constitutes much of a man's inner life. This program explores this fantasy fully, for in it lies the true secrets of helping a relationship really thrive.
2.
THE
HEAR A CALL TO ADVENTURE AND GROWTH
As soon as
a man sees a relationship as stifling his basic need for adventure and
growth, he will feel himself to be trapped in a prison without bars. Many
men live in this kind of situation, blaming a relationship for the dilemma
he is in. They do not realize that their true need is to learn how to listen
to and respond to the call of adventure from within. In this program both men and woman
will learn how to show a man how to hear his own call to adventure and open
up his prison doors.
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 "I just wanted to tell you Thank You! I find that having your book as my new companion has been my savior. I am beginning to finally understand what a true, meaningful relationship is all about. It’s so wonderful to know that I no longer have to live in confusion, and which such relationship problems. I can only hope that more will be introduced to your work so that true love can prevail." - Heidi, NYC |
3.
THE
FEAR OF COMMITMENT
The fear of commitment is widely misunderstood. Commitment is a natural outcome of being in touch with the best in oneself. It arises inevitably when a man is living from the truth of who he is. When a man, however, is in a relationship out of obligation, guilt, or to fulfill a false sense of self esteem, no real commitment is possible. In the ebook we discover the truth about commitment, how, all men really long for it.
4.
THE
FEAR
OF WOMEN
WHO CAN'T BE SATISFIED
There are
some women who can never be satisfied no matter how much a man gives or
tries to please. Some men become tied up in knots in these relationships and
start to feel terrible about themselves. But no matter how hard they try,
they can’t get the approval they need. Some just live for those rare
moments when they are acknowledged and thanked. This section discusses the
fundamentals of self-esteem and self respect. We learn the truth about
pleasing another and about pleasing
oneself.
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A Doctor With
A Proven
Track Record Of Success
Clinical
Psychologist and Psychoanalyst in private practice for over 20 years, and an
international renown author, Dr. Brenda Shoshanna is also the resident
relationship expert at i.village.com, a professor at Barnes &
Noble University Online, and has offered over 500 talks and workshops
to hospitals, universities and fortune 500 companies on building successful
relationships.
All of Dr. Shoshanna's work has been for the purpose of helping people like yourself find the love, support and well-being they desire.
To Get You Started, Here Are Some Important Discoveries About Male Psychology and Relationships
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WHAT IS "THE FANTASY ADDICT"?
A
Fantasy Addict is man who falls in love, not with a woman, but with his
fantasy of her. He is addicted to the high he gets from his fantasies and
will go to all lengths to keep them alive. Usually he has little knowledge
of the "real woman" he is with. When she begins to emerge, he
disappears.
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WHAT IS MALE IDENTITY, AND WHY MUST YOU UNDERSTAND IT?
Male
Identity is the way a man knows himself to be strong, competent, powerful
and desirable. This includes the way he compares himself to other men and
how he determines his value in the society. For many men Male Identity is
based upon successfully playing traditional "male" roles. When
these are taken away, some men have no way of evaluating themselves and
often feels at a great loss.
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WHAT IS FATHER HUNGER?
Father
Hunger is the deep longing a man has to have a primary male role model that
he can look up to, absorb, and be acknowledged and valued by. As well as
constituting a crucial part of his identity, this primary father
relationship is crucial for his initiation from boyhood into manhood in his
own right. When this has been missing from a man's life, there are many
consequences.
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THE PETER PAN COMPLEX
Some
men will never grow up - they refuse to. These Peter Pans can be enormously
seductive, charming and fun to be with. However, for them, responsibility is
seen as such a radical loss of freedom that they live their lives in
perpetual adolescence, playing and rebelling against the demands of an adult
life.
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WHAT IS COUNTERFEIT LOVE?
Most
of us live with the "mirage" of love rather than the real thing.
Like a mirage, Counterfeit Love is false and can never bring true
satisfaction. It is simply dependency, possessiveness, fear, loneliness or
even addiction masquerading as love. Like all mirages, when Counterfeit Love
is seen for what it is, it evaporates, leaving room for the real thing.
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THE FANTASY LOVER
This
man's entire identity is based upon seeing himself as a fantastic lover who
is irresistible to women - and to the whole world. Relationships and women
exist to prop up and confirm his sense of himself. These men acquire the
trophy wives and crave being continually seen in the right places and
admired by all. The relationship becomes a tonic for their ego, a way to
look in the mirror and love themselves. When relationship problems start to
emerge these men become shaky and have little ability or desire to sty put
and work things out.
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THE REPETITION COMPULSION
The
Repetition Compulsion is the unconscious compulsion to repeat a painful
situation or relationship over and over, in the hopes it will turn out
differently this time. Usually each time
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GHOSTS OF PAST RELATIONSHIPS
These
Ghosts are memories, dreams and longings that linger from past relationships
which have been finished but not completed. A man can hold onto the memory
of a former wife or lover and idealize her to such an extent, it prevents
him from being available to anyone in the present. These memories can also
be fraught with guilt, anger, resentment and blame, which often become
projected on the current relationship. These men must learn to say forgive
the past, say good-bye, and develop the courage to love again.
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FEELING AND DOING LOVE
We
all think love consists of feelings of warmth, caring, excitement,
sensuality or a host of other emotions. When these emotions fluctuate or
fade (as they necessarily must), we fear our love is passing or cannot
withstand time. Some individuals profess a great deal of emotion, never
backing their so called love up with congruent actions.
True
love is built upon deeds of worth, actions we take, which are a true
expression of how we feel. We can "do" love, a million times a
day, no matter how what emotions we are experiencing. These deeds include
the way we relate to our partner, what we say, the tone of voice, and
endless actions we take, and
refrain from taking - all of which build a foundation of trust. When we
"do" love, we build a relationship on a foundation that truly
lasts. Feelings not accompanied by deeds are ultimately meaningless and
based upon the wind.
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WHAT IS A GENUINE MEETING, AND HOW TO ACHIEVE IT.
A
Genuine Meeting is the connection and communion between two souls. It takes
place when we let go of pretends, manipulation and demands, no longer
viewing the other as an Object to be used, but a Subject to be met with and
known. In a Genuine Meeting we allow ourselves to be truly with another,
just as they are - and for them to be with us. No hiding. A meeting of this
kind brings fulfillment and renewal beyond our wildest dreams.
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REALLY SAYING YES
In order to really say Yes, we must let go of our resistance and rejection of life, each other and ourselves. In order to do this we must stop condemning ourselves and learn what it means to truly accept. Most of our time is usually spent refusing the great invitation life extends to us to be present, available, really touch the other and let yourself be touched as well.
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ANTIDOTES TO DISRUPTIVE PATTERNS
Once patterns are recognized, and the difficulties they cause are fully understood, healing can begin. "WHY MEN LEAVE" guides one to recognized exactly what problems exist, and then provides specific daily practices and techniques geared to disrupt and end these problems. Once disrupted, "WHY MEN LEAVE" provides healthy, relationship affirming behaviors which will replace the old, destructive ones.
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THE TURNAROUND PROCEDURE
This
procedure includes specific techniques for completely turning around
negative relationship patterns, spotting difficulties that currently exist,
and also spotting conflicts long before they can happens, saving much time
and heartache, and developing a relationship on a firm foundation from which
real love can grow.
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The premise at work here is straightforward: it's not that men don't like to talk - they don't really know how. In the introduction, Shoshanna writes:
WHY MEN LEAVE... seeks to become every woman's "journey of discovery" as it charts a course of education and revelation. Included herein are sections on men and work, men and their friendships, men and love, men and sex, men and marriage, men and spirituality, and, in the closing chapter, the payoff: getting men to talk. Complete with "personal inventory" quizzes in each chapter and "Touchstones to Remember," which offer guidance and insight into the different types of male personalities discussed along with each of the subjects, many readers (men and women alike) will realize a solid return on this investment - and perhaps the carrot as well: it is Shoshanna's hope that the information within will help form a bridge between the sexes, a link built of awareness and understanding - and love. |
Shoshanna's well-received prequel, "WHY
MEN LEAVE" . . . is her latest theorem set "for every
woman who needs to understand (and) every many who needs to be
understood."
Here Are Some More Topics Which We
Will Explore in "WHY MEN LEAVE"
What
exactly is The Fantasy
Lover?
The Need to Control.
The
Call to Adventure and Growth
The
Fear of Commitment
The
Midlife Crisis
Women
Who Don't Feel Satisfied
Men
Who Don't Feel Satisfied
Waiting for the Perfect Partner
Antidotes
for Disruptive Patterns
The Turnaround Procedure - Resolving Conflicts On The Spot.
What are the main reason men leave relationships?
What are some of a man's main needs in relationship?
Who is
the Fantasy Addict?
What stops a man from being satisfied in a
relationship?
How can In-laws or other significant family members
effect a man's leaving?
How does Male Identity impact on his leaving or
staying?
What is Father Hunger?
What are the primary differences between men and
women in relationship?
How does Role Definition effect a man's ability to
stay in a relationship?
What makes a man feel most safe to be intimate and
authentic?
How doe Other Women impact relationships?
What are the major misconceptions men have in
relationships?
What is the Peter Pan complex and how does it impact
relationships?
What Is Counterfeit Love?
What is the Repetition Compulsion and how does it
effects relationships?
How to exorcise the Ghosts of Past Relationships.
What is the difference between Feeling and Doing
love?
What Is a Sacramental Relationship?
Who are the men who leave for a man. What can a
woman do?
What does it mean to extend an Invitation to Live?
What is a Genuine Meeting?
What
does really saying Yes mean?
""WHY
MEN LEAVE" finally gives to women—and men—the tools they need
to gain a deeper understanding of how to love and respect each other, and
avoid future troubled relationship. Ideal for both men and women who
wish to learn the deeper methods behind
creating a life of joyous relationships."
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"I am so grateful I embarked on your relationship self help ebook program. It is a great journey with amazing new life lessons to learn. You have brought new help to my life, which I couldn't find anywhere else. I have overcome my relationship problems, and I thank you from the bottom of my heart." - Kara, Reader, Los Angeles CA |
You Must Find The Ways
To Have Happiness
In Your Relationships
- The Ways Will Not Just Find You
As it has worked for hundreds of couples and individuals, this program can work for you too. Based on tremendous demand and need, Dr. Shoshanna has finally compiled her years of working as a therapist, speaker, relationship expert and workshop leader into this unique program.
In "WHY MEN LEAVE" you will find solutions to relationship problems. There will be instruction, exercises and wisdom which have never been brought together in a single program.
The e-book is filled with techniques, examples, discussion, and step by step guidance. You will learn how to overcome the most difficult relationship problems, and create the relationships you've always dreamed of. This simple, direct and effective program has worked for hundreds: It can work for you too. Don't just take my word for it - check out these real-life responses:
"Your work on love has literally changed my life. My marriage was falling apart, and I couldn't find good marriage help, until I found you. Thank you."
- Elizabeth, NJ
"I was truly enlightened as I read Dr. Shoshanna's new book. You discover answers that you have buried away. Your new understanding allows you to beautifully apply this knowledge in your life.Thank you."
- Dr. Winn Henderson, MD
"I have to say that your book has changed my life. It’s absolutely amazing. Your book is opening the doors I never knew were available to open. Thank you sooooo much from the bottom of my heart."
- Trina, CA
"I needed marriage help. Only once before in my life have I ever cried when I finished a book. Your book has touched my soul and changed my life and how I am interacting with myself and my partner. I want to thank you for your invaluable words and sense of peace I have now that I have finished your extraordinary book."
- Alexis, NJ
"Rarely do eloquent prose, gems of quotes, simple wisdom and practical exercises come in one book. Dr Shoshanna's book offers all these and more. This is a book you will refer to for
years to come."
- Lee Jampolsky, Ph.D., author of Healing Together,
Healing the Addictive Mind, and The Art of Trust
You Have The Power
To Create
Healthy Relationships
Whatever
problems you are grappling with,
I promise your situation is not hopeless.
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The 8
Most Common Mistakes Here Are Some Common Mistakes We Make That Ruin Our Relationships. Have you made any of these mistakes?
Trying To Change Your Partner. "If they love me
enough, they'll change to please me." So many believe that they can
and will change their partner. It's only a matter of time. They
say, "If he loves me enough, he'll change that small thing to
please me."
Feeling Like You're A
Failure In Relationships.
Believing You Have To
Be "Good Enough" To Keep Their Love.
Rejecting Your Partner So They Can't Do It First Many reject their partners as protection individuals against being rejected themselves. The bottom line is these may not feel they deserve a relationship, they feel they can't hold onto a partner because they haven't accepted themselves.
Believing Your Partner
Should Read Your Mind, And Know What You Want Without Your
"Communicating" Clearly.
Believing It's Your
Partner's Job To Make You Happy. You must learn to make yourself happy, and make others happy as well. Love is based upon communicating, consideration and giving. First, however, you must be happy with yourself, before another can make you happy.
Believing It's Hard To
Get Him To Talk.
Being
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Will This Program Work For You?
Will this program finally be "that
relationship changing experience" you are hoping for? Will it
give you the power to make your relationship right? "WHY MEN LEAVE" has already
demonstrated to worked for hundreds of others just like you.
However,
if you are one of the very few who are not satisfied with this program, it
will be of absolutely no loss to you. You are entitled to an immediate 100%
refund, with absolutely no questions asked AND you get to keep
the book.
I am so confident that you will find great benefit from my program, I am
accepting 100% of the risk of your purchase.
Therefore, I provide to you a 8 week challenge. Anytime within the first 8 weeks of your ownership, if you find you have not greatly benefited from my ebook program, I will cheerfully refund your money, no strings attached.
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- Let's do a quick comparison
The cost of mental and emotional health is typically expensive:
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Relationship Self Help DVD Set |
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$50.00 |
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Days of Your Life Feeling Upset or Alone? Without Measure |
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The cost for mental health support, and needed insurance policies for
professional counseling, and at times medication, run into the hundreds, if
not thousands of dollars annually in many cases.
I
found a way to provide you with even greater value at a fraction
of the price.
"WHY MEN LEAVE" is available
to you as a downloadable manual (or ebook) directly accessible from the
Internet.
As I have no inventory or fulfillment costs, and do not need to pay anyone
to take orders over the phone, I pass along my cost savings to you.
Downloading "WHY MEN LEAVE" is
simple. I'm no techno whiz and I had no problem. It works perfectly with
both MAC or PC computers.
Because you will be downloading everything online, I'm not going to charge
you anywhere near the amount you'd pay for any of the alternatives listed
above. Your total investment in the entire program is only:
"WHY MEN
LEAVE" Price: $33.00
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STEPPINGSTONES TO LOVE This wonderful workbook includes "The Simple Laws of Love" and How To Practice Them Daily In Your Relationships. Dr. Shoshanna has given hundreds of relationship seminars based upon this book, valued at $29.99. You Get This Book Free
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If you invest in "WHY MEN LEAVE" today, you will receive a second, top-selling self help relationship workbook by Dr. Shoshanna entitled "STEPPINGSTONES TO LOVE" valued at $29.99 -- absolutely free. You also keep this book, even if you request your entitled, no strings attached 100% refund. |
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Together, "WHY MEN LEAVE" and the free bonus book "STEPPINGSTONES TO LOVE" are already worth more than 10x (ten times) your investment in other relationship support options which are available to you today - at least.
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Try This program out entirely at my risk. "WHY MEN LEAVE" comes with a 8 WEEK, 100%, NO-HASSLE, NO STRINGS, MONEY BACK GUARANTEE.
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I personally guarantee that you've never had anything like it. If you aren't fully satisfied after downloading and using the program, simply email us and we'll cheerfully refund your money.
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There is absolutely no way that you can lose, except by not taking me up on a risk-free examination of "WHY MEN LEAVE".
Okay, So Let's Begin.
Here's How You Can Start Working With "WHY MEN LEAVE" (and your free gift STEPPINGSTONES TO LOVE) In The Next 10 Minutes:
Click
above for an instant download of this material. Once your credit card is
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download everything, along with your Free Bonus Course "Steppingstones To Love".
It doesn't matter what time it is.
You'll be downloading and learning this unique information within just a few
minutes. Before you know it, you'll l be reading the book. There are so many
new, powerful ideas and steps to take that as soon as you start reading, in
10 minutes you will begin to know just what to do to make your relationship
right. The process takes place naturally. Just follow the easy steps and see
what happens in your life.
You can start at the beginning or at any place at all that feels right to
you. Absorb the new ideas. Read the stories of what happened to others. Do
some exercises and then do some more. Believe me, you 'll be amazed to see
how simple and effective my methods have proven to be.
Before you know it, you won't be worrying about what's going wrong. You'll
know just what to do to start making things right.
Sincerely,
Brenda Shoshanna
Dr. Brenda Shoshanna
Questions, Help or Refund?
Once you undertake this program, you are not alone. I am here to help you.
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